Traveling abroad — as I did recently — becomes a constant Lucy & Desi moment: “Lucy, you’ve got some ‘splainin’ to do!” And explain away I did. The Europeans I …

Gay Desert Guide Weekend: Oct 3-5, 2025

Gay Desert Guide: Week of Aug 21, 2023
With I-10 closed and the Coachella Valley literally marooned on a desert island, our first advice is to stay put early week. As of early Monday morning, 911 was down …

Gay Desert Guide: Week of Aug 14, 2023
Our weather has not been “fit for man nor beast”. So this coming weekend’s “Big Bear Romp” will be a reprieve for both species. It’s just one of the two …

Gay Desert Guide Weekend: Aug 11-13, 2023
There’s a romanticism about living abroad. And then there’s the practical side: Should things get really bad in the USA – say after the election – one may choose to …