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WED: Monthly Queer Women’s Social at Saffron Restaurant
The LGBTQ Community Center of The Desert’s Monthly Queer Women’s Social returns on Wednesday, May 20 from 5:30–7 pm at Saffron Restaurant and Lounge. Held every third Wednesday, this rotating meetup offers a relaxed space for queer women to connect, build community, and enjoy great conversation in a welcoming environment. Each month features a new venue, giving attendees a chance to explore local spots while strengthening community ties.
🔥 Version 1 – Firebirds Win Game 3
Firebirds Quest for the Calder Cup
After a thrilling Game 3 victory over the Colorado Eagles, the Coachella Valley Firebirds are soaring into the next stage of the Pacific Division Finals. Fans can keep the energy alive at official Bar Network Watch Parties for Game 4 on Wednesday, May 20 at 6 pm PT and Game 5 (if necessary) on Friday, May 22 at 6 pm PT—both played in Loveland, CO. Join fellow supporters at Taproom 29 in Coachella or Burgers & Beer in La Quinta and Rancho Mirage to Rally the Valley and cheer the Firebirds from afar!
🧊 Version 2 – Firebirds Lose Game 3
Firebirds Quest for the Calder Cup
Following a tough Game 3 loss to the Colorado Eagles, the Coachella Valley Firebirds are determined to strike back as the Pacific Division Finals continue in Loveland, CO. Catch Game 4 on Wednesday, May 20 at 6 pm PT and Game 5 (if necessary) on Friday, May 22 at 6 pm PT at official Bar Network Watch Parties hosted by Taproom 29 in Coachella and Burgers & Beer in La Quinta and Rancho Mirage. Rally the Valley and show your Firebirds pride from right here in the desert!
WED: UNSTOPPABLE: A Drag Spectacle
UNSTOPPABLE: A Drag Spectacle takes the stage at Oscar’s Palm Springs on Wednesday, May 20 at 7 pm, with doors opening at 5:30 pm for an evening centered on resilience, artistry, and the transformative power of drag performance. Hosted by LaWanda Jackson, a beloved entertainer and stroke survivor, the show features a remarkable lineup of drag artists from across the country who have navigated life‑altering physical challenges—including stroke, Parkinson’s disease, and other conditions—and fought their way back to the spotlight. More info
THU: Women Who Lead Luncheon
Palm Springs Life presents the Women Who Lead Luncheon on Thursday, May 21 from 11 am–2 pm at The Ritz‑Carlton, Rancho Mirage. The event honors outstanding women shaping the Coachella Valley, with keynote speaker Barbara Boxer, former U.S. Senator and local resident. This year’s honorees include Julie Bloom, Cindy Burreson, and Priscilla Zamarron, recognized for leadership across business, nonprofit work, and healthcare. The luncheon benefits the IECF Women’s Giving Fund and Do The Right Thing.
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THU: Silver Foxes
Silver Foxes, the hit comedy by writers James Berg & Stan Zimmerman, begins its run at Revolution Stage Company, opening Thursday, May 21 at 7 pm and running May 21–31. This witty and heartfelt play follows four longtime friends navigating senior dating apps after an unexpected loss, blending humor with themes of resilience, friendship, and second chances. Fans of The Golden Girls and Grace and Frankie will appreciate its warm, character‑driven storytelling. More info
FRI: Harvey Milk Day
Harvey Milk Day arrives this Friday, May 22, and it’s the perfect moment to revisit the voices and stories that continue to shape our movement. KGAY was on site at the Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast held last week, capturing powerful conversations with Dennis & Judy Shepard, Andy & Cathy Mills, Brandon Wolf, and more—now available to watch on our Facebook page. You can also dive deeper into the event with thoughtful coverage from The Hollywood Times.
FRI: Pool Party For A Cause
Pool Party For A Cause comes to the Palm Springs Surf Club on Friday, May 22 from 6–9 pm, benefiting the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The evening begins with a pre‑party Happy Hour from 4–6 pm, offering $8 well drinks and house wines before the main event moves poolside. Guests enjoy exclusive access to River Island and the Lazy River, creating a relaxed, summer‑ready atmosphere perfect for the summer’s first big weekend. DJ Galaxy spins live throughout the night. With great music, water features, and a strong community purpose, it’s a standout way to support local animal welfare while kicking off Memorial Day Weekend. More info
FRI: The Merry Widow at Palm Canyon Theatre
Coachella Valley Classical Voices presents The Merry Widow at Palm Canyon Theatre, running Friday–Sunday, May 22–24. This beloved operetta blends romance, intrigue, and sparkling humor as a wealthy widow’s fortune becomes the center of attention at a lavish Parisian ball. Featuring Jenne Carey as Hanna Glawari, the production showcases lush music and elegant staging. More info
FRI: WILD at The Sonoran
The Eagle Cathedral City (coming soon) launches Memorial Day Weekend with WILD on Friday, May 22 from 9 pm–2 am at The Sonoran. This late‑night dance party transforms the venue into a high‑energy nightlife destination, featuring DJ James Anthony and DJ Matt Effect, a packed dance floor, and a crowd ready to go all in for the holiday weekend. More info
FRI–SAT: Desertopia Memorial Day Weekend 2026
Desertopia returns with a full‑scale, very queer celebration of music, dance, art, and pure Palm Springs expression, unfolding across multiple venues from Friday–Saturday, May 22–23, beginning on Friday with a high‑energy night at 4707 Events, then shifting into a caftan‑laden pool takeover at The Sonoran on Saturday before the evening ignites again inside the venue. This year’s lineup brings major queer talent to the desert, including Horse Meat Disco, X3Butterfly, Father Figure and more. More info
A Man of No Importance
The BENT presents A Man of No Importance, running May 8–24, a tender musical exploring identity, acceptance, and the courage to live authentically. Set in Dublin, the story follows Alfie Byrne, a gentle bus conductor determined to stage an amateur production of Wilde’s Salome at his local church. As he confronts prejudice and the quiet ache of a love “that dare not speak its name,” Alfie discovers the transformative power of friendship and community. Our theatre reviewer Stephen Radosh says the play “is a reminder that theatre doesn’t need spectacle to move us. It needs truth, compassion, and a story told with care — and this production delivers all three.” Read his full review and get tickets: More info
