My alarm went off just before 5 am today. Sometimes I’m up that early, but today it was appointment listening to my hometown radio station in Hastings, Michigan, where my career began 51 years ago.
That pales in comparison to my mentor, Dave McIntyre, who today retired from WBCH radio at age 85. He and my parents went to school together, raised their families and served their community — it’s a small town. Dave was the morning host and newsman for my entire lifetime. And I thought my tenure in this business was long. He took me under his wing when I was hired to run the Sunday morning church services and do news and weather at age 15.
I saw Dave when I was visiting in July and used their studio to record my Saturday 103.1 MeTVFM radio show. The place hadn’t changed much. Burlap still lined the newsroom wall with nails where we used to “peg” teletype news copy for editing.
Just when I’m starting to contemplate “retirement”, I look at Dave and see that I’ve got a long road ahead to match his tenure. I’m not sure I have 19 years left in me, but I do hope to stay involved and active in our great LGBTQ+ community for many more years.
What we’ve got going on in “community” here in Greater Palm Springs is totally different from what you’d find in a small rural town in Michigan, thanks to our diversity and, yeah, some “wokeness” vibes. I really appreciate where I came from and my upbringing, but honestly, I love living and serving here the most.
Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide
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TUE: The Devil’s Confession: The Lost Eichmann Tapes
Experience a powerful evening of historical reckoning at the Tolerance Education Center on Tuesday, August 12 at 6 pm, with a screening of The Devil’s Confession: The Lost Eichmann Tapes. This gripping documentary reveals long-suppressed recordings of Adolf Eichmann, exposing his direct role in orchestrating the Holocaust’s Final Solution. Through chilling audio and expert insight, the film confronts Holocaust denial and sheds light on one of history’s darkest chapters. RSVP here
STARTS THU: Big Bear Romp
Get ready for four days of mountains, mischief, and mayhem at Big Bear Romp, happening August 14–17 at Big Bear Lake. This all-day, all-out celebration welcomes bears, cubs, daddies, and friends for glow bowling, lake cruising, pool parties, outrageous trivia, comedy, and late-night dance events like the witchy underwear bash BEEFWITCH. With DJs, vendors, and signature events like Bear Soup and Bitchy Bingo, Big Bear Romp is your summer escape for connection, laughter, and unapologetic fun. More info
FRI: Pool Party for a Cause
Make a splash for a cause at Shelter Splash Night, happening Friday, August 15 from 6:30–9:30 pm at the Palm Springs Surf Club. This adults-only, after-hours pool party features floating fun on the Lazy River, tropical drinks at the Island Bar, tasty bites from the Taco Bar, and live beats by DJ Galaxy under the desert stars. With early bird tickets at $25 and proceeds benefiting the Palm Springs Animal Shelter, it’s the perfect way to party with purpose. Get tickets
FRI: Heart – Royal Flush Tour
Rock icons Heart ignite the stage at The Show inside Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa on Friday, August 15 at 8 pm. As part of their Royal Flush Tour 2025, Ann and Nancy Wilson bring decades of powerhouse vocals, fierce guitar riffs, and unforgettable hits like “Barracuda,” “Alone,” and “Crazy on You.” This is your chance to witness one of rock’s most influential bands in an intimate, high-energy setting. Get tickets
STARTS FRI: Lake Arrowhead Pride
Celebrate love, lakeside flair, and mountain magic at Lake Arrowhead Pride, happening August 15–16. This vibrant weekend features the Pink Pony Club Dance Party, two dazzling Love Boat Booze Cruises, a colorful Boat Decorating Contest, and a lively Pride Festival at Lake Arrowhead Village. Cap it off with the glitter-fueled Mayhem in Maui dance party and a fabulous Drag Brunch in Blue Jay. From cocktails to cruising, it’s a joyful escape into community, creativity, and Pride spirit. More info
Taste of Summer Rancho Mirage – Final Week
Taste of Summer Rancho Mirage is in its third and final week, running through Sunday, August 17—which means one more week of sizzling specials and delicious discoveries. With a $10 wristband, available from the Rancho Mirage Chamber of Commerce or participating nonprofits, you’ll unlock exclusive deals at dozens of local restaurants. It’s a win-win: enjoy tasty bites, cool treats, and culinary adventures while supporting vital nonprofit programs across the Coachella Valley. Come hungry and celebrate the season with flavor and community! More info
ALSO THIS WEEK
Monday, August 11
Monday Night Bingo with Bella da Ball | 7–9 pm at the Ace Hotel
Hot Spot Trivia with Deven & Ned | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
Tuesday, August 12
Triage Cancer: What to Do When an Insurance Company Says “No” | 11 am at Eisenhower Health
Wednesday, August 13
Hot Spot Bingo with Deven & Ned | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Cathedral City
Thursday, August 14
Carousel Live Retro Music | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
VillageFest Street Fair | 7–10 pm in Downtown Palm Springs
Friday, Aug 15
Blood Drive | 10 am–3 pm at Eisenhower Health
Drag Bingo/Trivia Nights (alternating) | 4:30–7 pm at Arrive Hotel
Food Truck Fridays | 5–10 pm in Downtown Indio
Saturday, Aug 16
LGBTQIA Higher Powered OA Meeting | 11:30 am at Sunny Dunes Clubhouse
Solar Sessions at Royal Sun Palm Springs | 12–6 pm
Country Dance Saturdays: Toes Line Dance With Kyle Young | 7 pm at Step by Step
Sunday, Aug 17
Guided Hikes | 11 am & 1:30 pm at San Jacinto State Park (Tramway Mountain Station
