Brad Fuhr

Tequila or THC. Which is worse for you? With all the political turmoil, it’s tempting to numb the “pain” with alcohol or drugs. (We won’t know how usage rates went up post-election for some time, but I have my theories…)

In a Wall Street Journal article titled, “Booze or Weed: What’s Worse for Your Health?”, the answer is both.

“The reality is, if you’re really worried about your health, you wouldn’t use either of them,” says Ryan Vandrey, a professor at Johns Hopkins University who helps run the Cannabis Science Lab. 

And that’s no surprise, as we’ve heard study after study tell us the downsides of drinking. Wine was suppose to be better, but that’s been recently debunked. And weed especially as gummies can help with sleep and anxiety. “Cannabis may be lower in calories than alcohol but both substances can have the net effect of causing people to eat more, the so-called munchies,” according to the article.

Mushrooms are also gaining favor, even among CEO’s. I read an article about a Canadian former CEO now leading retreats for others in the boardroom who trip for the betterment of their companies. Many report coming away “enlightened”. Sounds intriguing, but I think I’ll stay with my regiment of Manhattans and Malbec. And maybe an occasional gummy.

Brad Fuhr, your Gay Desert Guide on KGAY 106.5 Palm Springs

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Soak, Sip & Paint

Soak Sip Paint Crop

The Coachella Valley Cannabis Alliance Network (CVCAN) is hosting a “Soak, Sip & Paint” event on Monday, February 10 from 4–8 pm at the Miracle Springs Resort in Desert Hot Springs. Guests can enjoy a rejuvenating soak in the mineral-rich pools, followed by a delightful tasting of fine wines and THC-infused cocktails. The highlight of the event is a guided painting session where attendees can unleash their inner artist with the help of an experienced instructor. Get tickets


DBA Mixer at Low Desert Modern Mexican

DBA Feb

Join the Desert Business Association for the February DBA Mixer at Low Desert/Modern Mexican on Monday, February 10 from 5:30–7 pm. This event offers an evening of networking and delicious food. Enjoy a variety of standard Mexican dishes, as well as unique vegan and vegetarian options. DBA members attend for free, while future members can join for $20. Those who stay for dinner after the event will receive 10% off of their meal. More info


All About Bette

Bette

All About Bette: An Interlude with Bette Davis starring Morgana Shaw takes the stage one night only at the Palm Springs Cultural Center on Tuesday, February 11 from 7–9 pm. This show pays tribute to Hollywood’s Golden Age, featuring a mesmerizing performance that explores the life, loves, and legacy of Bette Davis, the fearless actress who changed the course of cinema. Shaw’s spellbinding portrayal captures Davis’s wit, fire, and vulnerability, making this an unforgettable evening of drama, glamour, and storytelling. Get tickets


The Children’s Hour – A Staged Reading

The Childrens Hour

THE BENT presents a staged reading of The Children’s Hour on Tuesday and Wednesday, February 11 & 12 at 7 pm. This playreading series features the 1934 groundbreaking lesbian play by Lillian Hellman. Set in an all-girls boarding school, an accusation of a lesbian affair leads to the destruction of two headmistresses’ careers, relationships, and lives. Despite being nearly 90 years old, this powerful story remains relevant today. Get tickets


Red Dress Tickets on Sale Wednesday

Red Dress 2025 Logo

Don’t miss the highly anticipated Red Dress/Dress Red Dance Party on Saturday, March 15 from 8 pm–Midnight at the Palm Springs Air Museum. Tickets go on sale on Wednesday, February 12 and are expected to sell out fast, so set your alarm! This event, featuring a stunning venue and a great cause, has become a highlight of the Palm Springs social scene, raising support for The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert’s programs. Dress in red to show unity, solidarity, and community, and get ready for an unforgettable night. More info


Modernism Week 2025

Modernism Week Double Decker Bus

Modernism Week is set to celebrate its 20th anniversary from February 13–23. This 11-day festival in Palm Springs will feature over 400 events, including the popular Palm Springs Modernism Show, home tours of historic neighborhoods, and the Palm Springs Signature Home Tour. Attendees can look forward to double-decker bus tours, architectural walking, biking, and bus tours, visits to the Annenberg Estate at Sunnylands, a vintage trailer show, a classic car show, garden tours, and nightly parties. The event will also include live presentations, historic films, and talks from experts, providing an in-depth exploration of modernist architecture. Many events are free or low-cost, ensuring everyone can experience the beauty and history of midcentury modern architecture. More info

Palm Springs Modernism Show

Modernism Show and Sale

The Palm Springs Modernism Show runs from Friday, February 14 to Monday, February 17 at the Palm Springs Convention Center. Featuring 135 national and international exhibitors, this event showcases the best in midcentury and modern design, all available for purchase. The Show opens with a festive Opening Night Party on Friday, February 14, from 6–9 pm, with open bar, hors d’oeuvres, a show catalog, live music, and early access to shopping. The Show continues through the weekend: Saturday, February 15 from 10 am–6 pm; Sunday, February 16 from 10 am–5 pm; and Monday, February 17 from 10 am–4 pm. There will be a free Classic Car Show on Monday from 12 pm – 3 pm in front of the convention center. Get tickets


Tastes & Sounds of Cathedral City

Tastes Sounds Cathedral City

Join the lively celebration at the Tastes & Sounds of Cathedral City on Tuesday, February 11 from 5:30 pm – 7:30 pm at the Cathedral City Community Amphitheater. This free weekly event combines live music and delicious food, featuring local artists and restaurants. On this evening, enjoy the musical talents of Daytime Moon while savoring tasty dishes from Taqueria Copacabana. It’s a wonderful opportunity to connect with the community in a scenic outdoor setting and indulge in great food and music. This vibrant event series is scheduled every Tuesday through April 8. More info


This Week at the McCallum Theatre

Ones - The Beatles #1 Hits
Ones – The Beatles #1 Hits

This week at the McCallum Theatre is packed with extraordinary performances. On Monday, February 10 at 7 pm, immerse yourself in the powerful drumming of Kodo as they explore the traditional Japanese taiko drums. Tuesday, February 11 at 7 pm, GRAMMY®-winning violinist Joshua Bell and vocalist Larisa Martínez, accompanied by pianist Peter Dugan, present a diverse repertoire ranging from classical pieces to musical theatre in their program “Voice and the Violin.Wednesday, February 12 at 7 pm, “Palm Springs Legends” showcases tribute artists portraying iconic stars like Frank Sinatra, Liza Minnelli, Kenny Rogers, and more. Thursday, February 13 at 8 pm, the Desert Symphony brings “Ones – The Beatles #1 Hits,” an exciting tribute show featuring every number one song from The Ed Sullivan Show to the Apple Rooftop, complete with stunning visuals and period-accurate instrumentation. On Friday, February 14 at 8 pm and Saturday, February 15 at 2 pm & 8 pm, “George Gershwin Alone” tells the story of the legendary composer with performances of his best-known songs, including a complete rendition of “Rhapsody in Blue.” Finally, on Sunday, February 16 at 3 pm, Jeffrey Siegel’s “Schubert: Subtle and Sublime” offers an enchanting exploration of Franz Schubert’s music through performances of waltzes, impromptus, and sonatas. Get tickets


Black History Month at the Palm Springs Art Museum

Black History Kick Off

On Thursday, February 13 from 5:30–8 pm at the Palm Springs Art Museum for Conversation: Black Perspectives on Palm Springs Architecture & Housing. This in-depth panel, part of Black History Month, will be led by Jerald Cooper of Hood Century, featuring Dieter Crawford, Founder and CEO of Urban Palm Springs, and LaVera Hoyes, a Section 14 survivor. More info


Welcome, Gay Pilots Association

Winter Warm Up NGPA 2025

The National Gay Pilots Association’s Palm Springs Winter Warm-Up takes place this Thursday–Sunday, February 13–16 in Palm Springs. As the largest annual gathering for the NGPA, the Winter Warm-Up offers a unique mid-winter retreat for pilots, aviation professionals, and flying fans alike. More info


Honky Tonk Angels

Honky Tonk Angels

Desert Theatreworks presents Honky Tonk Angels, a musical extravaganza, from February 1–March 30 at the Black Box Theatre. This lively show features three fearless women from diverse backgrounds chasing their dreams to Nashville. With 30 timeless country hits like “Stand By Your Man,” “9 to 5,” and “Harper Valley PTA,” this toe-tapping journey celebrates sisterhood, resilience, and the power of music. Get tickets


ALSO THIS WEEK

Wednesday, February 12
Desert Candlelight Series: Barry Allen Cohen
| 6 pm at Mary Pickford Theater

Friday, February 14 – Valentine’s Day
Ride ‘n’ Dine for Valentine’s Day
| After 4 pm at the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway
Elizabeth “Beth” Edwards – Walk of the Stars Ceremony | 2 pm at 300 S. Palm Canyon Dr.

For all events go to GayDesertGuide.com

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