Gay Desert Guide Weekend: Aug 8-10, 2025

Same Time, Next Year is the story of annual infidelity that starred Alan Alda and Ellen Burstyn. It takes us on a journey where each character evolves over their lifetime, but still meet for an annual tryst through thick and thin.

I had a version of that in my early gay life when I was “saved” by a group of gay men at the Gay 90’s Bar in Minneapolis. I was by myself and not fully out, so they noticed my nervousness — and my lack of defense against an unwanted suitor. I went home with one of them and that started an annual meet up that lasted a number of years.

Then in 2006, my radio friends and I went to Amsterdam. We hit an opulent bathhouse (no longer there) for an evening of fun. I met Gerben, a native Netherlander, with whom I had a great evening talking, fooling around and getting to know each other. So much so that I invited him over the next evening too. We shared contact info.

Fast forward to last weekend as I was ending my Amsterdam Pride trip with BearCruise.com. He and I had stayed in touch over the years, and had tried to meet up again but to no avail. This year was different. But it wasn’t for the prurient pleasures, we genuinely wanted to see each other and see how our lives had progressed.

He shared a fascinating story of his father’s version of Same Time, Next Year – but in a non-sexual way. While visiting Malaysia in the 70’s with his family, Gerben’s dad befriended one of the hotel workers. As they visited in subsequent years, the two families got to know each other and became intertwined. His father helped the family’s two girls through college. They visited each other in their native lands until his father’s passing.

And that explains why Gerben and I, after all these years, reconnected for a trip down memory lane. We had seen this movie before.

Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide

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Splash House Weekend 1

The ultimate summer pool party experience returns to Palm Springs for Splash House Weekend 1, happening Friday–Sunday, August 8–10. Immerse yourself in house music vibes across three incredible resorts (Saguaro, Renaissance, and Riviera) alongside thousands of fellow sun-worshipping and electronic music-loving revelers. Featuring a stellar lineup including ACRAZE, Disco Lines, Eli Brown, San Pacho, TroyBoi, Westend, and more, plus After Hours at the Air Museum with Diplo b2b BLOND:ISH on Friday and WAXTRODA on Saturday. Splash House continues with Weekend 2 from August 15–17. Get tickets

The Lofts Art Walk

The Lofts Art Walk returns Saturday, August 9 from 4–7 pm at The Lofts Art District, 610 S. Belardo Rd in Palm Springs. Presented year-round on second Saturdays, this vibrant event invites you to explore an eclectic mix of artistic styles—from geometric abstract and screen printing to hyper surrealism and more. Stroll through open studios, meet local artists, and experience the creative energy that defines this dynamic district. More info

Hello, Dolly!

Catch the classic musical comedy Hello, Dolly! on Sunday, August 10 from 3–5 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center. Set in 1890s New York, this charming tale stars Barbra Streisand as Dolly Levi, a spirited matchmaker with romantic plans of her own. With unforgettable performances and timeless humor, it’s a delightful afternoon at the Camelot Theatre you won’t want to miss. Get tickets

80s Rock Tribute Fest

Crank up the nostalgia at the 80s Rock Tribute Fest on Saturday, August 9 at 6 pm at The Show inside Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. This high-voltage concert features three epic tribute bands—DSB (Journey), INSX (INXS), and WANTED (Bon Jovi)—bringing iconic hits like “Don’t Stop Believin’,” “Need You Tonight,” and “Livin’ on a Prayer” to life with spot-on vocals and arena-worthy energy. Get tickets

Brothers of the Desert Members & Allies Lunch

Join Brothers of the Desert for their Monthly Members & Allies Lunch on Saturday, August 9 from 12:30–1:30 pm at El Taco Asado in Palm Springs. This welcoming midday gathering offers a chance to connect, share, and build community over great food and conversation. All are invited to attend and celebrate fellowship in an inclusive setting. More info

California Dreamin’ Portfolio Wine Dinner

Savor the flavors of California at the California Dreamin’ Portfolio Wine Dinner on Sunday, August 10 from 5–9 pm at LG’s Prime Steakhouse in La Quinta. Enjoy a curated evening of fine wine and gourmet dining with special guest Dante Riboli Colombatti, all while supporting Alzheimer’s Coachella Valley. Whether it’s a night out with friends or a romantic date, this desert summer soirée promises elegance, connection, and a cause worth toasting. More info

Desert Bloom 4

Desert Bloom 4 returns to Club 541 on Saturday & Sunday, August 9 &10 for a weekend of connection, education, and kink-forward celebration. Hosted by Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert, Rough Trade Gear, and Club 541, this all-day event includes two private parties, exclusive giveaways, and full venue access from Friday through Sunday. Highlights include a certified masseur, boot blacking by International Mr. Leather 2025 Rene Hebert, and optional tutorials like “Fisting to Music” and “Toys and Fisting.” Enjoy cigars on the patio and camaraderie throughout. Get tickets

Taste of Summer Rancho Mirage

Taste of Summer Rancho Mirage is in full swing, running through Sunday, August 17—which means one more week of sizzling specials and delicious discoveries. With a $10 wristband, available from the Rancho Mirage Chamber of Commerce or participating nonprofits, you’ll unlock exclusive deals at dozens of local restaurants. It’s a win-win: enjoy tasty bites, cool treats, and culinary adventures while supporting vital nonprofit programs across the Coachella Valley. Come hungry and celebrate the season with flavor and community! More info