Giving seems to be in our LGBTQ DNA. The practice of helping others — whether financially, socially or in volunteerism — is something we just do, most of the time without giving it a second thought.
You’ve heard about the Laws of Attraction, made famous by the video and book, The Secret. At KGAY & Gay Desert Guide, we have found each other and truly believe in our mission. My team exudes that spirit of giving out and showing up.
From DJ Galaxy making meals for the less fortunate at the holidays to Eric Ornelas’ helming Safe Schools, we like helping others. Our KGAY Cares campaign donates thousands of public service messages to deserving organizations. And our GayDesertGuide calendar keeps you up to date on fun and fundraisers.
So when it was time to ask for help with our KGAY #SupportYourStation campaign, we were in an odd place — asking for help. Our streaming costs have risen to over $5,000 per month to keep our music and message going around the world. You responded.
If you didn’t have the opportunity to contribute, you can still do so all weekend at KGAYPalmSprings.com. I’m on the John Taylor morning show today thanking our contributors. If you’re among them, we are filled with gratitude that you stepped up to help keep the KGAY stream alive worldwide.
Now on to helping others again. Our businesses that lost so much after last Saturday’s bombing won’t qualify for insurance reimbursement due to it being an act of terrorism. So please support our local businesses in the many ways you’ll read and hear about on Gay Desert Guide and KGAY, respectively.
Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide
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Holiday Weekend
Memorial Day Weekend in Greater Palm Springs marks the official kickoff to summer, and with already-hot weather, there’s no better time to cool off with a cocktail, dine out, and support local businesses, especially those which have reopened following last weekend’s bombing tragedy, so now’s the time to show them love. From happy hours to live music, drag brunches, and tea dances, Palm Springs is serving up a spectacular holiday weekend! Refer to Gay Desert Guide’s Happy Hour Finder and Dine & Sip pages for the best spots to sip, savor, and celebrate all weekend long!
Memorial Day Ceremonies
This Memorial Day, Monday, May 26, the Coachella Valley offers several opportunities to honor fallen service members. Ceremonies will be held at 9 am at Veterans Park in Desert Hot Springs, the Coachella Valley Public Cemetery District, and the Indian Wells Golf Resort. For a truly unique tribute, visit the Palm Springs Air Museum starting at 10 am for their Flower Drop & Air Fair, with the main ceremony around 1 pm. Additionally, Veterans For Peace and AMVETS Post 66 will host their 19th Annual Memorial Day Awards Luncheon at Cimarron Golf Resort from Noon–2 pm. More info
A Community United After Tragedy
Join the “Rebuild Palm Springs” effort at a Drive-Thru Donation Drive on Friday, May 23 from 7 am–7 pm. In the wake of the devastating May 17 bombing, this community-united event, led by local business owners, aims to provide direct and essential aid to businesses and residents facing costly, uninsured repairs. Your donation, accepted at Boozehounds at N. Palm Canyon and Via Escuela, will help restore hope and rebuild lives, with funds distributed transparently by the Desert Business Association and Greater Palm Springs Pride. More info
Simple Minds, Soft Cell, & Modern English
Simple Minds headlines the Alive & Kicking Tour 2025 at Acrisure Arena on Friday, May 23 at 7 pm. With over 60 million albums sold and the iconic hit “Don’t You (Forget About Me)” under their belt, they join forces with special guests Soft Cell and Modern English for an electrifying night of classic New Wave and 80s hits. Don’t miss your chance to relive the magic of one of music’s most legendary eras. Get tickets
MaDonna Summer Dance Party
Get ready for MaDonna Summer, the ultimate Madonna and Donna Summer dance party and drag spectacular, returning to Oscar’s Palm Springs on Saturday, May 24 at 8 pm. Hosted by ShyBoy, this Memorial Day Weekend bash features an electrifying all-Madonna and all-Donna Summer DJ set, dazzling drag performances, stunning visuals, and a tribute gallery to the Queen of Pop and the Queen of Disco. Get tickets
Comedy Weekend: Marcello Hernández, Jimmy Carr at The Show
Get ready to laugh with the incredibly talented Marcello Hernández at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa on Saturday, May 24 at 8 pm. Known for his sharp wit and infectious energy, this rising comedy star promises an evening packed with hilarious storytelling and his signature charm. You may know him as “Domingo” from the viral Saturday Night Live sketch; he’s been an SNL cast member since 2022. Get tickets
Globally acclaimed comic Jimmy Carr takes the stage at The Show with Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny on Sunday, May 25 at 7 pm. Jimmy promises his signature sharp wit and clever one-liners that have sold out arenas worldwide. Known for his record-breaking tours and hit comedy specials, this is your chance to experience the humor that’s captivated audiences in over 40 countries. And he really does laugh funny. Get tickets
Private Tours of The Shag House
Step into The Shag House for a private tour with Brandon, where you’ll feel like you’ve stepped straight into a life-size Shag painting! Explore every vibrant, retro-inspired corner at your own pace—just you and your guests, no crowds. Select a date from now through Sunday, June 15 and experience the magic behind the green gates in this fully immersive space! Get tickets
The Inheritance Part I
Experience the powerful storytelling of The Inheritance, presented by THE BENT at the Palm Springs Cultural Center from May 9–26. This award-winning play by Matthew Lopez delves into the lives of three generations of gay men navigating love, loss, and identity in a changing America. Directed by Steve Rosenbaum and inspired by E.M. Forster’s Howards End, the performance promises an evening of drama and reflection. Get tickets
The Beverly Hills Peace Talks
Step back into a captivating moment in history with The Beverly Hills Hotel Peace Talks by CVRep, running May 21–June 1. The story was inspired by a real-life 1968 incident—when the casting of Funny Girl sparked tensions between Israel and Egypt. In this fictionalized scenario, a movie executive and a publicity expert host an impromptu peace talk with an Israeli and an Egyptian diplomat, and as debates unfold, unexpected romance blooms, mirroring the film’s narrative. Our theatre reviewer Stephen Radosh praises the clever blend of historical events, Hollywood drama, and personal diplomacy, with strong performances and thought-provoking themes of loyalty, identity, and reconciliation. Read his full review and Get tickets
Perez Art District Art Walk Season-Ender
Don’t miss the final Perez Art District Art Walk of the season on Friday, May 23 from 4–7 pm! 🎨✨ Explore nearly 50 artist studios and galleries in the valley’s largest art district, witnessing creativity across painting, sculpture, photography, wood, and mixed media. Enjoy live performances and engaging conversations with local artists. This free, open-to-the-public event returns September 26, so come celebrate art before the summer break! More info
ALSO THIS WEEKEND
Friday, May 23
Ron Oliver Honored on Walk of the Stars | 10 am
Photog.Alchemy | 4–7 pm at Desert Art Woman Gallery in the Perez Art District
Tom Jones | 8 pm at The Show
BearUnion | 8 pm–4 am at Club 541
Saturday, May 24
Quarterly Art Exhibits | Sat & Sun, 10 am–4 pm at Cathedral City Library
Animal Samaritans Adoption Event | 11 am–1 pm at Petco Palm Desert
Power Yoga Master Class with Bryan Kest | 5:30–8 pm at Khaga Yoga Palm Springs
The Totally Ridiculous Game Show! | 7–8:30 pm at Dietlart Gallery and Performance Space
Country Dance Saturdays: Barn Dance with Rob Ollander-Krane | 7 pm at Step by Step
